Richard John Gray
August 20, 1931 – October 19, 2024
We are saddened to announce the passing of Richard John Gray, Class of 1949. Our heartfelt condolences go out to his family and friends during this difficult time.
A comprehensive obituary highlighting the extraordinary life and achievements of Richard John Gray has been published by www.hamptonfuneralnc.com, and is included here courtesy of the Hampton Funeral Home.
Richard John (Masin) Gray, a beloved member of the community and a dedicated banking professional, passed away on October 19, 2024, at Atrium Health Wake Forest Baptist Hospital in Winston-Salem, North Carolina. He was 93 years old.
Born on August 20, 1931, in Sayville, New York, Richard’s journey began in a small town where he developed a strong work ethic and a passion for serving others. He embarked on his career in banking in 1949 as an Office Boy/Junior Clerk at the Bowery Savings Bank. Over the next 60 years, Richard’s commitment and expertise propelled him to remarkable heights, culminating in his roles as President and Chief Operating Officer, and later as President and Chief Executive Officer of various banks in Long Island and Florida.
Richard was not only a leader in the banking industry but also a mentor and friend to many. His dedication to community banking and his belief in the importance of personal relationships in business left a lasting impact on those he worked with.
In addition to his banking career, Richard proudly served his country for over 30 years in the Army Reserve, retiring with the rank of Lieutenant Colonel. His dedication to service extended beyond his professional life, as he was a pillar of strength and support for his family and community.
Richard is survived by his loving wife, Carole; his sons Scott and Todd, and David (that preceded his death), stepchildren Ashley and Keith Keyes; seven grandchildren; and ten great-grandchildren. He will be remembered for his warmth, wisdom, and unwavering love for his family.
A celebration of Richard’s life will be held 1:00 P.M. Saturday November 2, 2024, in the Chapel of Hampton Funeral Service with Pastor Gary Shew officiating followed by Military Honors.
The family will receive friends Friday evening from 6:00 until 8:00, at Hampton Funeral Home Chapel.
The family requests that donations be made to a charity of your choice in honor of Richard’s commitment to service.
He will be deeply missed but will forever remain in the hearts of those who knew and loved him.
Online condolences may be sent to the family at www.hamptonfuneralnc.com
Hampton Funeral and Cremation Service is in charge of the arrangements.
In honor of Richard, a memorial page has been created, and the Sayville Alumni Association will commemorate him annually on his birthday. It is our hope that this remembrance will provide some solace to all who knew and cherished him.