The passing of Steven Henry W. Stoll, Class of 1981
Remembering Steve H. W. Stoll, Class of 1981
It is with great sadness that we share the news of the passing of Steve H. W. Stoll, who died on August 10, 2026. We extend our condolences to Steve’s family, friends, former classmates, and all who had the privilege of knowing him.
A obituary was published by Southwick Forastiere Funeral & Cremation, 624 College Highway Southwick, Massachusetts. It is reprinted here with their kind courtesy. We invite you to read the full obituary and learn more about Steve’s life and the family he cherished,
Steve H Stoll, 1963 – 2026
W. Stuffield, MA
Steve passed on August 10, 2026. His life began on August 11, 1963. The son of two teachers, he lived in West Sayville, NY and spent summers at the family cabin on Schoodic Lake in Milo Maine.
Steve graduated with a Bachelor Degree in Chemical Engineering from Clarkson University in Potsdam, NY. He went to work at Grumman on Long Island as a Chemical Metallurgical Engineer working on F14’s. In 1987, he moved to Connecticut after being hired by Hamilton Standard as an environmental engineer.
Steve retired in 2019 with 32 years of service in positions of increasing responsibility. During his career, he visited HS facilities across the US and abroad. After retirement from HS, Steve consulted part time for HRP, an environmental consulting company.
Steve and his wife Mischelle moved to Congamond Lakes in 1998. She would meet up with him at the end of his work trips where they used vacation time to explore the world. They traveled the states and many countries, but Steve was a homebody at heart. He loved to read, watch sports, and keep up on current events. He enjoyed Taco Bell, chopping wood, pickleball, entertaining, swimming, boating and camping with our Hammonasset Camping Crew. His favorite teams were the Red Sox, Giants, Rangers, and Uconn basketball. He loved his immediate and extended families and especially his Sunday phone calls with his mother.
Steve was predeceased by his father, Rodney Stoll. He is survived by his wife Mischelle (Goyette, Anderson), mother Ellen (Hiltabrand) Stoll of West Sayville, NY, and siblings Susan Fanjoy and Eric of Marlton NJ, Sally Stoll DePompeo and Phil of Sayville NY, Scott Stoll and Kari of Basalt CO. In-laws, Paul Goyette and Siara Percey, Keith Goyette and Shirley, Melissa Naro and Dr. Tom. He leaves behind many nieces and nephews. He was loved by many and will be missed immensely. We were blessed to have had him in our lives.
We give special thanks to his care teams at St. Francis Hospital, Trinity Health in Glastonbury and Johnson Memorial Cancer Care in Enfield. A memorial service will be held on September 2, at Southwick Forastiere Funeral Home, 624 College Highway, Southwick, MA. Visting Hours are 4:00 – 6:00 p.m. followed by a service at 6:00 p.m. In lieu of flowers, honor Steve by planting a tree or making a donation to a charity of choice.
A memorial page has been established to honor and celebrate Steve’s life. We invite all who knew him to visit, share memories, and leave tributes reflecting the lasting impact he had on his family, friends, and community.
In recognition of his enduring connection to Sayville and the people he loved, the Sayville Alumni Association will remember Steve and his life as part of the continuing legacy of those who grew up, lived, and contributed to the Sayville community.
May the memory of Steve’s love of the water, his devotion to his family, and the friendships he cherished continue to live on in the hearts of all who knew and loved him.
Thank you to Gail (Milroy) Byrnes, Class of 1981 for alerting us to Steve’s passing.